How to Use the Site: Step by Step WalkthroughWatch the walkthrough video
Step 1: Sign Up
Click “sign up” to begin your journey. Pick a username and a password. You will receive a confirmation email. Click on the link in the email and choose a membership to activate your account.
Once you activate your account you will create a basic profile and be asked to agree to a terms of service.
Step 2: Create Your ‘About Me’ Page
The ‘About Me’ page is an extended profile. It tells other users about your lifestyle and personality. All fields are optional, so fill it out however you want.
Step 3: Create Your Contract
Your contract is a detailed description of your desired marriage lifestyle. Be very thoughtful as you fill out each section; the site will use only your contract to match you up with other users.
You can complete your contract very quickly by using an Archetype. An archetype is a pre-filled contract describing a general type of husband or wife. Select an archetype to immediately have a complete contract that you can then tweak as needed.
Step 4: Browse and Search Members
Click on the ‘Members’ link to browse the member directory. Use the member search bar on your profile page to search for potential matches.
Step 5: Interact with Other Members
When you find someone you like, send them a wink. If they wink back it will unlock private messaging. You can then freely message each other through the site.
When you are ready, send a proposal. A proposal is a personalized version of your contract. Users can accept, reject, or counter offer.
Step 6: Get married and Live Happily Ever After
Once you have a successful match you will get your new partner’s contact information. Send them an email and go put a ring on it!